Some of the most amazing human beings are not always the best mothers or friends. The more I learn about how Chia saw the world, the more I realize that she probably did the best she could.
She was a flutist, a jeweler, a painter, a sculptor, a private financial manager, a gypsy camper, a four times divorcee, and my mom.
But she never figured out what she wanted to be when she grew up and that bothered her. Her struggle with gender issues which troubled her until her 90th year–would have been accepted in our culture today.
She’s gone on, but as I approach my later years I feel compassion for her unsettled and wildchild nature.
Fabulous lives don’t happen without a few obstacles to overcome.
“It’s not what we are dealt that shapes us, it’s how we choose to build a life from it.”
Please, don’t choose to be a victim. And have a fabulous holiday season!
Oh Crow, these words are fabulous. Happy holidays.
And wonderful holidays to you too.
Chia was one of a kind!
Yes indeed. A fascinating and informed friend to so many.
I would love to hear more about your mom Crow. One of these days let’s get on a call and chat.
Thank you for sharing this with me.
Much love and light to you xo
Dori
Dori, yes… we must do.
You are my favorite. What a gift our friendship is. ~Sweetie!
What an honor and it’s reciprocal!
“The greatest risk any of us will take is to be seen as we are.”
~Cinderella
Thank you for sharing from one that never figured out what she wanted to be.
Susie
I don’t think that finding out what you want to be is a requirement for a joyous life. May you find joy where ever it blooms.
Grateful to have known Chia for several years. Thanks for your comments.
❤️ Beautiful words! Wishing you a wonderful holiday season!
Lisa G.
Lisa, Thank you There is often beauty hidden behind hard truths. Best of holiday seasons to you.
Beautiful words and thoughts, Crow. And very true. Have a very Merry Christmas. I hope we have a chance to cross paths next year!
Thank you Julie. Our meeting so brief… but friendship holds. Good holidays to you and yours.
Thank you, Crow. Happy holidays!
And joyous ones right back to you and yours, Philipp.